Sunday, March 20, 2011

hujan yg turun bagaikan mutiara

hujan yg turun bagaikan mutiara, tapi kalau hujan acid, bagaikan apa? Mmg payah nk cerita, kunun negara maju nuklear plant kena ada, lebih canggih dari jepun katanya, harap2 pakar mesia terrer2 belaka, dan tiada bencana yg melanda, malapetaka dah tak kira di mana, darat laut atau udara, rumah maksiat masih bermaharajalela, salah siapa kalau bkn pihak berkuasa, serta kita sebagai warga negara, apa kata kita bako sja!

buat apa yg terdaya, nk sergah tanpa kuasa nnt dpt surat loya, nk tangkap tak kena gaya, ibu bapa kata lu apa crita, bdk2 skrg pakai baju 'pusat hiburan' nampak terang lagi nyata, macamana maksiat tak berleluasa, di sekolah pun... mcm2 crita, cikgupun dah tak terdaya, nk salahkan sistem pendidikan atau budaya? dunia la ni lain macam gayanya, ada usaha tapi ditentang mereka, kunun kena hormat pelbagai budaya, tp majukah kita kalau anak2 muda jadi chaca marba, pi merempit tah mana hala, kalau ditegah dibahamnya kita, dah tak de hormat org tua, tak de duit meragut plak kerjanya, nyawa dah tak de nilai bagi mereka, last2 merempat tak tentu hala, org luar gak yg dapat segala, rajin berkerja dan berniaga, segala habuan bawa balik negara mereka, maaf bukan nk komplen dan duduk saja, kalau dok tngok dah bnyk usaha, cuma kita ni masih bercakaran sesama kita, org lain yg raih untungnya, kita masih lagi di takuk lama, sampai bila? Harta bkn terletak pada wang ringgit saja, tapi pada kualiti hidup kita, dan kejayaan anak2 bangsa, betul tak apa yg diperkata? Maaf kalau tersinggung atau terasa, tak sengaja, cuma mengingatkan saja, tanggungjawab sesama kita, semoga ceria dan berbahagia hendaknya...*peace*

Thursday, March 03, 2011

Buat renungan bersama.....Kelebihan surah Al-Ikhlas...

Telah diriwayatkan daripada Nabi S.a.w "Allah itu indah(cantik) dan Allah suka kepada kecantikan" maka sahabat pun bertanya.."Wahai Rasullulah apakah maksud indah?"maka jawab Rasullullah "Keindahan itu ialah Allah itu tunggal,tempat tumpuan,tidak beranak dan tidak diperanakandan tiada siapa yg menyerupainya dan keindahan hamba ialah ia mengetahui akan sifat2 keagungan tersebut..."
Di riwayatkan daripada Ibnu Abbas Radhia'llahu anhu bahawa Allah Ta'ala berfirman kepada Rasullullah saw pada malam Mi'raj "Di kurniakan kepada Rasullullah surah Al-Iklas dan ia adalah simpanan dr perbendaharaan 'Arasy dan ia mencegah dr azab kubur."
Antara kelebihan surah Al-Ikhlas.....

1."Sesiapa yg membaca surah Qulhu wa'lahu Ahad sekali nescaya Allah sw mengurniakannya pahala seperti sesiapa yg percaya kepada Allah,Malaikatnya,kitabnya dan Rasul-rasulnya serta di anugerah pahala seratus syahid.."

2.Dibaca setiap pagi dan petang Allah akan mencukupkannya semua urusan dunia dan akhirat...

3.Sesiapa yg membaca Qulhu wa'llahu Ahad dalam sembahyang atau tanpa sembahyang nescaya Allah mempastikan baginya kelepasan daripada neraka...

4.Sesiapa yg membaca surah Al-Ikhlas dengan tulus iklas nescaya Allah mengharamkan jasadnya daripada neraka...

5.Rasullullah juga pernah bersabda,'Tiap sesuatu itu ada cahayanya dan cahaya Al Quran ialah Qulhu wa'llahu ahad.."

6.Seorang lelaki telah datang pada Rasullullah dan berkata "Ya Rasul Allah...sesungguhnya saya telah melakukan banyak dosa oleh itu tunjukkanlah saya cara menghampiri diri kepada Allah.." maka Rasullullah pun menjawab.."hendaklah memperbanyakkan membaca Qulhu wa'llahu ahad kerana ia dapat menghampirkan kamu kepada Allah sw.."

7.Dari Mu'az bin Jabal..."Rasullullah saw telah bersabda...Sesiapa yg membaca Qulhu wa'llahu Ahad sepuluh kali maka Allah akan membinrumah baginya di Syurga.."

8. Barang siapa membaca Qulhu wa'llahu ahad 3 x seolah-olah ia membaca semua al-quran..

9.sesiapa yg membaca Qulhu wa'llahu ahad 11 x Allah membina baginya sebuah istana di dalam syurga.....sesungguhnya rahmat Allah itu amat luas....

10.Sesiapa yg membacanya 11 x selepas solat subuh nescaya Allah memeliharanya dr dosa meskipun bersungguh-sungguh syaitan mengodanya...

11.Sesiapa yg membaca 50 x setiap hari nescaya di seru pada Hari Qiamat dari kuburnya."Bangunlah wahai pemuji Allah,persilakanlah ke syurga..." Subhanallah...besarnya nikmat pada surah ini...sama2lah kita beramal...insyaallah

Miracle Maths




Take the day you're born times 4+ 13x 25- 200+ the month you're bornx 2- 40x 50+ the last 2 digits of the year you're born- 10500

GEOGRAPHY OF A WOMAN

Between 18 and 22, a woman is like Africa half discovered, half wild, fertile and naturally beautiful!

Between 23 and 30, a woman is like Europe - well-developed and open to trade, especially for something of real value.

Between 31 and 35, a woman is like Spain - very hot, relaxed, and convinced of her own beauty.

Between 36 and 40, a woman is like Greece & gently aging, but still a warm and desirable place to visit.

Between 41 and 50, a woman is like Great Britain, with a glorious and all-conquering past..

Between 51 and 60, a woman is like Israel - has been through war, doesn't make the same mistakes twice, and takes care of business.

Between 61 and 70, a woman is like Canada – cool, self preserving, but open to meeting new people.

After 70, she becomes Tibet - wildly beautiful, with a mysterious past and the wisdom of the ages.... An adventurous spirit and a thirst for spiritual knowledge

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Doa buat sahabatku yg konfius...

Ya Allah ya Tuhan kami, kau ampunkanlah dosa sahabat kami walau siapapun dia, baik atau buruk, kaya atau miskin, dia ttp sahabat kami dunia akhirat, kami sayang sahabat2 kami. Oleh itu Ya Allah, kami memohon hanya padaMu Tuhan sekalian alam, Tuhan kepada segala ciptaanMu, Tuhan yg Kami sembah, berikanlah hidayah kepada Kami Ya Allah, berikanlah petunjuk kpd kami, jauhkanlah kami dari segala macam dugaan, fitnah, dan hasad dengki. Dan Kau bukakanlah hati sahabat kami itu supaya sedar akan perbuatannya dan kembali ke pangkal jalan. Ya Allah, jgnlah Kau pesongkan dia dan tempatkan dia di lembah yg hina, kerana kami sayangkan sahabat kami semua ex smsb. Berikanlah hidayah Mu kpd kami semua agar kami menjadi hambaMu yg patuh, taat akn perintahMu dan menjadi insan yg berguna kpd agamaMu, ibubapa kami, masyarakt amnya dan umatMu keseluruhannya. Ya Allah, ampunkanlah kami di atas segala kesalahan kami di dalam berbicara, ampunkanlah dosa2 sahabat kami yg telah dilakukannya samada secara sedar ataupun tidak. Namun antara kami Ya Allah, beliau tetap sahabat kami dunia akhirat dan kami telah memaafkannya. Peliharalah kami ex smsb dari segala dugaan dan rintangan. Rahmatilah persahabatan di antara kami Ya Allah, Kau rapatkanlah kami sebagai sahabat dunia alhirat dan jauhkan kami dari sengketa. Dan Engkau bukakanlah pintu hati sahabat kami itu untuk berterus terang dan ikhlas dalam persahabatan ini Ya Allah, kami ikhlas dan sedia menerimanya tanpa sebarang syarat atau sekatan. Sesungguhnya Engkaulah Tuhan yg Maha Agung lagi Maha Mengetahui....amin

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

pantun 2 kerat

roti arab gulai kari
sahabat akrab sukar dicari

sedap cicah kari daging
lama terpisah kembali bersaing

bercambah mekar mengharum di hati
memang sukar dicari ganti

masak cuka resipi lama
suka duka dilalui bersama

makan roti cicah kari
sahabat sejati sentiasa dihati

Wednesday, February 09, 2011

Fw: Loooove this!!!, please send back!!!!!!


Concentrate on this Sentence

'To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did.' When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. Concentrate on this sentence... 'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.' .

Send it to others... Not before you read below

There comes a point in your life when you realize:

Who matters,
Who never did,
Who won't anymore...
And who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.
Give these flowers to everyone you don't want to lose in
2011
Including me, if that's what is in your heart.
Try to collect
8 ; it's not easy!

Sunday, February 06, 2011

Very interesting medical facts...

If u sleep with yr gf on 14 Feb (Valentine's Day), she will give u good news on 21 March (Mother's Day), & u will have a child on 14 Nov (Children's Day)! See the medical aspects but don't try this on every gf because you will have bad news on 1 Dec (AIDS DAY)...hahahah :D>=)

Friday, February 04, 2011

Importance of extra curricular activities



Extra curricular activities at school can develop you to become a better person, and not to only focus on academic alone. In real life, academic achievement is a must but extra ability such as leadership etc is definitely a plus point. You will be ne given a book or an exampaper at work but you are expected to manage and deal with a lot of thgs in the office without any handbook and resolve the tasks given in a specific time frame. The skill at school will teach you not to only pass the exam but also to survive in the real world. There're a lot more you can learn out of classroom, and grab all those knowledge so tht you can be the best employee tht can survive in any situations at work.

The Importance of English Language in the Business Environment



English language is very important in the corporate world. If you want to be successful, you must be fluent in English and good at writing. Otherwise you can forget it altogahter. But to be good or fluent if English is not your first language? Try to work at a shop or hotel tht is dealing with international people and be around people who usually communicate in English. You need to talk and practice to be good. For the start, try your best, even use a sign language, but you will be surprise, one fine day you may be able to talk like English is your motjer tongue. Not tht you must be proud to be able to communicate better in English, but you may get better advantage in a business world if you can speak and write good English, if you can entre the corporate world at all.

Introvert vs extrovert





Everybody wants to be successful. But before that we have to look at ourselves. What are our strengths, our weaknesses? Are we introvert or extrovert? Can we develop ourselves? Are those characteristics or t raits can be learned? Knowing yourselves would help you to choose the right career for yourselves. For instance if you are an introvert person, and your are good at numbers, a very detail person but you don't like to de al so much with people, you might want to consider being an accountant or and IT specialist or a programmer. If you are an extrovert person, you might want to consider out of office work such as engineer, salesperson or a marketing job. So is introvert person or extrovert person better? The answer is both are good in its own way. The only thg is tht you need to understand your strengths and weaknesses and match tht with the right job tht suits you. So it's very important for you to understand about yourselves and sharpen the strengths and try to improve you weaknesses in order to get your dream job.

A story about man and woman from a friend of mine...

Men like to see beautiful things
Women like to hear beautiful words
That's why men lie
And women wear makeups

Think about it...a very interesting observation indeed...hehe

Hidup ini bagai roda

Hidup ini ibarat roda
Kita akan melalui pusingannya
Cuma waktunya bila
Kita akan tempuhi jua

Kita lahir ke dunia
Dibelai disayangi ibubapa
Kita membesar bergaya
Dalam satu keluarga

Zaman kanak2 kita bermanja
Mengikut ibubapa ke mana sahaja
Bila remaja kita berasa
Ingin bersama kawan melebihi keluarga

Bila kita menempuh dewasa
Bertemu teman yg istimewa
Pilihan kita utk bersama
Mendirikan rumahtangga

Kini ibubapa tinggal berdua
Sering menelefon untuk bersua
Kita sibuk dgn kerjaya
Serta melayan pasangan kita

Tiba masa anak2 kita pula
Lahir ke dunia ditimang manja
Mereka meningkat remaja dan dewasa
Masa pantas berlalu begitu saja

Kini giliran anak kita pula
Menempuhi alam berkeluarga
Tinggallah kita berdua
Melihat anak kita bahagia

Lengkap sudah pusingan kita
Hidup ini bagaikan roda...

Cinta Rasul Pada Kita

Kita kata kita cinta
Tapi kita sering lupa
Hanya pada sesuatu yg berada
Di depan mata

Cinta Rasulullah pada kita
Mendoakan untuk kita seluruh umatnya
Kesejahteraan bukan shj di dunia
Namun akhirat bersama syafaatnya

Cinta kita pada mata
Mudah terpedaya
Pada kecantikan luaran sahaja
Sebab itu kita mudah kecewa

Cinta Rasul maha tinggi darjatnya
Hati yg bersih dan mulia
Sayang akan umatnya
Semoga kita tidak lupa

Thursday, February 03, 2011

advice??

open ur heart bro, u 'll open for a lot of possibilities...of course u'll never know wht will happen, good or bad, happy or sad, it's a university of life...make lots of mistakes u want but just don't repeat the same mistakes twice (coz tht's pure stupidity...hehe); there's no diploma but it matures u, makes u a better person each day, and one more thg...to be sad or happy, to feel good or bad, is a choice tht u make...get control of urself and be positive, smthg bad happens for a good reason, and of coz for a bad decision u made, but it does not matter...life goes on bro, so don't worry, start living and stop worrying, life is great...there's a lot of opportunities ahead of u...search for it, u'll find it one fine day...and when tht happens, call me...we can hv a good teh tarik and laugh over it...wow life means nothing w/out a good teh tarik bro...and a 'ressome' (is it rassome? How to pronounce it anyway? Hasih...). Btw, tk gud cr of urslef bro...wish u all the best and happy life ahead! Chiow...

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Joke...haha

;;): Why husbands avoid questions...

Wife: What would you do if i died? Would you get married again?
Husband: Definitely not!

Wife: Why not? Don't you like being married?
Husband: Of course I do!

Wife: Then why wouldn't you remarry?
Husband: Ok Ok I'd get married again..

Wife: So would you both live in our house?
Husband: Sure its a great house...

Wife: Would you both live together
Husband: Of course.

Wife: Would you let her drive my car?
Husband: Probably, its almost new...

Wife: Would you replace my picture with her?
Husband: That would seem like the proper thing to do...

Wife: Would you give her my jewellery?
Husband: No I am sure, she would want her own

Wife: Would you give her my shoes?
Husband: No her size is 5...

Wife: .....(Silence) :O
Husband: Shitttt...!!! X_X

Saturday, January 29, 2011




I find this article to be very humbling .......... a good read for everyone, parents and children

 Story of Appreciation One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.
He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.
The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.
The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none".
The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.
The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" The youth answered, "My mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.
The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?" The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.
The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.*
The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.
The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.
This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.
After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.
That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.
Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.
The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: " Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"
The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'
The Director asked, " please tell me your feelings."
The youth said, Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done. Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.
The director said, " This is what I am looking for to be my manager.
I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.
Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.
A child, who has been protected and
habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work,
he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager,
he would never know the sufferings of his employees
and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually
would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?*
You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person.
The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.

I find this article to be very humbling .......... a good read for everyone, parents and children


 Story of Appreciation One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.

He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.

The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none".

The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" The youth answered, "My mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?" The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.

The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.*

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.

The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.

This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.

The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: " Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'

The Director asked, " please tell me your feelings."

The youth said, Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done. Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.

The director said, " This is what I am looking for to be my manager.

I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.

A child, who has been protected and

habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work,

he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager,

he would never know the sufferings of his employees

and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually

would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?*

You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person.

The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Kasih Maha Pencipta



Tuhan Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang
Mengampunkan dosa setiap insan
Tanpa mengira taraf dan darjat
Jika kita bertakwa padaNya
Tuhan Maha Pengampun akan hambaNya
Walau sebesar mana dosa kita
Jika kita bertaubat nasuha
Dan tidak syirik padaNya
Tuhan Maha Kaya
Memiliki alam semesta
Dunia ini hakNya
Milik kita hanya pinjaman sahaja

Friday, January 21, 2011

cikgu

cikgu
berkhidmat utk negara
bnyk berjasa kpd anak2 bangsa
tenaga yg dicurah amat mulia
tanpa mengharap balasan apa2
melihat anak muridnya berjaya
itulah sahaja yg dipinta
masyaAllah betapa mulianya
pengorbanan guru2 malaysia
hanya Tuhan yg dpt membalasnya

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Just to remind myself

Just to remind myself of ppl who helped me to be who I am today, not as successful as a man can be but I am thankful to those ppl and to Allah, for 'em to let me chart my own future and be where I wanna be. Not to forget tht the time now is not only about us, but also others around us, to grow them, to let 'em choose their own path, wht they wanna be, be it the decision is good or bad to us coz we never know the end result, and the most important thg is at the end of the day, we don't own any of 'em or anyone, they are just part of us sharing the our experience, our life...and thy have the right to fail or to succeed...because those experience will teach them to be a better person one day and to help grow other ppl around 'em, just like wht we did to 'em, and thy'll remember tht somebody, a very thougtfull person, taught them to do so sometimes ago, and thy will be thankfull and remember of you for wht you did to 'em today...

Friday, January 14, 2011

Belajar bahasa utara

Kelepiaq aku menerjah bumi Tuhan
Menjengoi dipintu resah
Terpunggai jauh dibawa arus
Lunyai rasa jiwa
Melengkaq pasrah
Beremba segagan menuju puncak
Senerih kita di antara benua
Berdiri segagan
Merunyuaih merenyeh...
Membisu tanpa suara
Suka duka melengkaq melata

Aku pun tak faham apa aku kata
Belasah saja la...hehe

Healthy lifestyle

Key to good health is happiness and having 'clean' heart...no hatred, always forgiving...erm, I wanna stay healthy but ppl surrounding keep harassing me, I can't even be close to tht healthy and happiness thingy, but I wanna have a good and healthy life. Can I hire someone to to kick some asses and have a 'clean' heart by forgiving those ppl instead? But I don't have tht much money to do tht, so back to square one...

Sunday, January 02, 2011

Happy Birthday My Dear Love

My Dear Love
Happy birthday to you
Wish happiness be with you
Coz I want you to be happy
And make you happy
For that, I will always be next to you
During shiny or cloudy days
Sadness or happiness
I will be there for you

If I were your reasons for not being happy
Tell me so, I will change
If I were the reasons you were sad
Tell me so that I can disappear
If I were the reasons you were in dismay
Tell me again, I will not forgive myself

Dear my love
On this day that you were borne
Let us pray together
That our love will last forever
In this world and thereafter
We are and will always be together
There's no celebration in a fancy restaurant
Neither expensive gift to show my appreciation
But I am a gift to you and you are my greatest gift
Your love I will cherish forever
I love you...

Saturday, January 01, 2011

1st day of 2011



It's holiday
Tht's why we're here
Today is 1st day
Of the new year
Wish everybody
To appreciate various cultures
Today is the 1st day
The best awaits us in the future

Friday, December 31, 2010

Pantun Tahun Baru Ex Smsb

Kereta Rog laju berlalu
Bersama Tipah naik proton wira
Tahun 2010 bakal berlalu
Ketibaan 2011 disambut gembira

Shuhaimi datang melawat kawasan
Nora & hubby amat bergaya
Yusni cikgu sangat berwawasan
Mendidik murid sampai berjaya

Kapal Basri terus berlabuh
Ikut Badrul minum maajun
Doa kami Sue segera sembuh
Nxt reunion bolehlah join

Fiza berdiri atas papan
Dijah makan tak habis sebakul
2011 bawa harapan
Semoga Amirul selamat diijabkabul

Zus bawa pisang belayar
Masak sebiji diatas peti
Lina anak mami yg rajin belajar
Dah grad nanti jangan lupa kami

Halim suka makan hailam
Che Na sula minum sarsi
Sofia & hubby kerja siang malam
Rosman pulak terer jadi MC

Haji Kamal imam yg segak
Joker kita cikgu Zaini
Findi jadi ketua penggerak
Usaha Ghani kami hargai

Sebut Langkawi teringat Hayda
Sabrina contoh seorang guru
Selamat tinggal 2010 seadanya
Bersama kita sambut tahun baru

Aliaa bergaya depan hidangan
Alif tak suka makan toyu
Tambah setahun usia perkahwinan
Suraya Che Othman I love you

Pantun ceria penutup bicara
Malam menanti detik waktu
Maaf tak dpt nk sebut semua
Sampai waktu ku pohon berlalu

Thursday, December 30, 2010

Gunung Kinabalu



Gunung Kinabalu
Puncakmu tinggi di awan biru
Kebanggaan negeri di bawah bayu
Berdiri megah di situ
Gunung Kinabalu
Anugerah istimewa dari Tuhan
Buat umat yang benar-benar faham
Ianya suatu kebenaran dan kebesaran
Walau setinggi mana darjat mu
Takkan setinggi Gunung Kinabalu
Walau segunung harta benda mu
Tinggi lagi Gunung Kinabalu
Persis bayu di angin lalu
Ombak beralun membujur lalu
Lenyap sekelip tampak bertamu
Jika itu layak berlaku
Tiada yang kekal melainkanNya
Allah hu Akbar

Monday, December 27, 2010

Cerpen Merapu 3: Superhero Scratch & Win



OTW balik dari keje td adik aku call. Dia guna sistem telekomunikasi paling canggih sekali, bicara terus hati ke hati, sistem telekomukikasi paling canggih rekaan Prof Gadget, katanya ada org kt depan pintu pagar nak promote scratch & win apa tah. Katanya org tu tanak blah, walaupun mak aku dah halau depa, akupun apa lagi hangin la satu badan, terus aku campakkan basikal BMX aku kat tepi jalan tu dan menggunakan superpower yg aku ada, terbang dgn kelajuan max speed 1000km/jam. Dalam masa sesaat, aku dah sampai depan rumah. Mamat yg nk jual scratch & win tu terkezut dgn kehadiran aku, dia try pulak nk promnote kat aku, dia bagi kertas scratch & win tu pada aku dan suruh aku scratch, bvleh dpt hadiah besar punya kata dia. Dah rama yg beli tapi blom ada yg menang. Akupun teruja terus ambil duit syiling dan scratch...aku memang, dapat TV 14"...yeayy. Sukanya aku dpt TV free. Tapi mamat tu kata kalau nk dpt TV tu aku kena beli peti ais dulu, mesin bash dan kerusi urut pada separuh harga. Congak2 ada la dalam RM3999 utk semua barang2 tu. Alamak, ni 2 bulan gaji aku ni. Ah, aku tanak lah...nah balik , ko je la claim hadiah ni, aku tadak duit bnyk tu la nk beli barang2 tu semua. Eh, mana bleh, abg dah scratch, kena beli gak, ckp mamat tu pelat. Adoi, hampehnya....fikir punya fikir, aku terus gunakan kuasa superpower aku lari dari situ dgn kelajuan cahaya. Rupa2nya mamat tu pun ada superpower gak, dia freeze kan aku supaya aku tak bleh bergerak. Badan aku keras tak bleh nk terbang. Dia panggil supervisor dia datang. Supervisor dia besar giler macam giant. Supervisor dia marah dgn aku. Dia tarik dan cucuk hidung aku dgn bulu ayam, adoi...gelinya. Akupun terbersin kuat, tersangat kuat hingga melayang supervisor tu dgn mamat jurujual yg hampeh tu. Mereka terjatuh jauh dan tersangkut di celah2 gunung berapi di sumatera. Gunung berapa tu terkejut dan terus marah. Gunung berapi tu meletup dgn kuat sehingga menghasilkan tsunami sampai ke KL, nasib baik aku sempat meniup balik tsunami tu dan tsunami tu pun berpatah balik ke gunung berapi tu dan gunung berapi tu terkena air laut yg masin lalu ais laun menjadi beku. Org2 kampung sgt suka sebab mereka tidak lagi perlu membeli garam dan boleh export pulak garam gunung berapi bercampur laut tu ke negara2 Eropah dan Amerika utk dibuat ubat. Org kampung di situ menjemput kami sekeluarga dan menyembelih lembu 5 ekor utk kami makan. Kami pun makan daging tu yg telah dipanggang cicah dengan air asam, sungguh sedap. Selesai makan kami pun pulabg ke rumah. Otw nk sampai tiba2 supervisor dan mamat salesman tu muncul kembali dgn kertas scratch & win yg aku dah gores tadi. Dia kata aku tetap kena beli sebab aku dah gores, kalau tak dia tak nak keluar dari rumah. Diapun pergi mandi di bilik air dalam rumah aku dan cakap nak makan sebab lapar. Aku naik angin lalu aku kenakan caj letrik yg tinggi daripada badan aku dan air paip tu menjadi panas melebihi 250 darjah celsius, habis badan supervisor tu melecur dan pediah2. Dia terus berlari ke klinik. Dia marah2 doktor sebab doktor tak nak bagi ubat sebab dia lupa bawa kad insuran. Diapun terus berjumpa bomoh di sebelah klinik itu. Bomoh itu sangat jahat. Dia bagi minyak angin cap limau sahaja dan caj RM50. Tapi minyak angin tu mujarab sangat dan badan supervisor tu pun pulih sepenuhnya dengan hanya satu sapuan. Supervisor tu pun ambil keputusan untuk buka klinik tradisional jual minyak angin cap limau. Supervisor kaya raya dan buka cawangan di semua negeri, sekarang ni ramai yang beratur isi borang online memohon untuk dapatkan franchise klinik tradisional minyak cap limau supervisor. Untuk mengendalikan semua permohonan tu, supervisor melantik salesman untuk meluluskan semua permohonan secara online. Salesman tadi tidak lagi membuat pekerjaan yang menipu orang ramai menjual. Secara menipu pelanggan scratch & win nya dan bekerja secara halal dengan supervisor. Sekali sekala supervisor dan salesman yg menjadi kawan baik serta aku pergi bercuti ke Bahamas, sambil mendengar Bob Marley menyanyi di sana. Kadang-kadang Jon Bon Jovi juga menyertai kami dalam percutian itu. Semuanya senang hati, habis dah...(Cerita diadaptasi dari siri drama HERO di Astroa...hehehe).

Usia ku




Di usia kanak2
Terasa terlalu pantas masa berlalu
Sibuk bermain2 ke sana ke mari
Berkaki ayam tanpa segan
Berbasikal merayau tanpa sempadan
Seluruh kampung menjadi jajahan
Mencari teman dan rakan-rakan
Bermain guli dan batu seremban
Papan congkak di atas bumi
Biji getah menjadi ganti
Bermain sehingga dinihari
Di usia remaja
Tak tahu arah dan tujuan
Masuk saf kanak-kanak atau dewasa
Semuanya serba tak kena
Asyik ditegur ibubapa dan keluarga
Tak mudah nak jadi insan berguna
Berbakti kepada bangsa dan negara
Tetapi itulah saat paling bahagia
Di usia dewasa
Punya tanggungjawab kepada keluarga
Mencari rezeki untuk keluarga
Bukan mudah untuk berjaya
Hadapi tekanan keluarga dan rakan sebaya
Kenapa terlalu cepat kita dewasa?
Seronoknya zaman kanak-kanak kita
Ku mahu kembali ke usia remaja
Tapi tak mungkin ianya kembali
Hanya tinggal memori

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Dosa



Sahabatku berkata2 pasal dosa
Sesuatu yg jarang kita perkata
Malah tiada siapa yg suka berbicara
Bila soal dosa pahala menjadi agenda
Tapi ianya sesuatu yang nyata
Suka atau tidak kita kena terima
Supaya menjadi pedoman di hari muka
Apa yang dah jadi itu adalah sejarah lama
Yang penting perbaiki diri kita
Ke arah yang lebih baik untuk diri dan semua
Tiada yang mustahil jika kita ingin mencuba
Berubah ke arah kebaikan tanpa ada syaratnya
Ke arah yang diredhai Allah Subhanahu Wa Taala
Tuhan Maha Pencipta
Pemerintah Alam Semesta
Marilah kita memohon dariNya
Agar hidup kita bahagia
Direhdai dan diberkati olehNya
Kebaikan di dunia dan akhirat matlamat kita
Tiada yang kekal selama-lamanya
Melainkan Alah jua

Monday, December 20, 2010

My dream bike...hehe



birthday wish from my daughter...i'm gonna cry...

 

You Da Man!

Ever since my life began,
I realized that "You da man!"
I saw your wisdom, your courage too,
And I learned I could rely on you.

Your tolerant nature was really great;
Nevertheless, you'd not hesitate
To let me know when I'd been bad;
It must have been hard, but that's being a dad.

You're strong and smart and filled with love--
A gift to me from up above,
So here's a greeting from your biggest fan:
Happy Birthday, Dad, 'cause "You da man!"

To the world, you may be one person.
But to me, you are the world.

 I Love You, Abah <3

 

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Employee Engagement Survey











Now it's coming towards the end of year, other than annual performance review tht's coming, there are other performance lever or indicators such as Customer Satisfaction Index and Employee Engagement Index. A company better make sure tht there's no 'funny' decision made during this period. All unpopular decision must be avoided and only good news shd be communicated tot staff to ensure good EEI result. But do we really have to do tht? Popular or unpopular decision is driven by business. As long as employees understand the situation and the reasons behind those decisions, I trust tht employees can understand and make wise decision not to use the ESS as a mean to 'punish' the management and the company. The key thg is communication and honesty. If the mgmt can communicate well and with honesty, all employees can accept wahtever and however unpopular the news would be.
So let's communicate...

Leaders create, not destroy




Leaders create, not destroy...something we have to think about.
Leaders listen a lot...no offense but wander if they can do tht...

Reunited with ex SMSB, 5 Dec 2010

Reunited with old friends
The feeling was so great
Excited but a bit skeptical
How's everybody?
Can I still recognoze them?
What's you name? I can't remember...but your face is so familiar...
What had ever happened to you all these while?
Lesser hair, grayer hair...put up some extra weight...haha
But it was so much fun
I love my old friends
We were just like we were 25 yrs ago
Pitty MC coz the hall is just like pasar malam
Everyone wanted to undiscover the missing 25 years
How could you stop them?
Hope to see you all again next year
Thank you for now, until then...
Hope not for other 25 years...hehe

17 Disember 2010

Ya Allah
Junjung kasih ku padaMu
Di atas segala kurniaan
Sujud aku padaMu
Alhamdulillah

Setahun berlalu
Perjalanan penuh onak berliku
Suka duka berlalu
Melakar lagi sejarah hidupku

Junjung kasih ayah bondaku
Isteri dan anak2ku
Rakan seperjuangan dan teman
Mewarnai persinggahan hidup ini
Utk perjalanan yg panjang

Sunday, December 12, 2010

An email from a friend (sharing is caring) - Treatment for Diabetic

Please note that another name for Lady Finger (Bhindi ) is " OKRA ".
 
Last month in one of TV program I learnt of a treatment of Sugar(Diabetes). Since I am diabetic, I tried it and it was very useful and mySugar is in control now. In fact I have already reduced my medicine.

Take two pieces of Lady Finger (Bhindi) and remove/cut both ends of eachpiece. Also put a small cut in the middle and put these two pieces inglass of water. Cover the glass and keep it at room temperature duringnight. Early morning, before breakfast simply remove two pieces of ladyfinger (bhindi) from the glass and drink that water. Keep doing it on daily basis. Within two weeks, you will see remarkable results in reduction of yourSUGAR.
My sister has got rid of her diabetes. She was on Insulin for a fewyears, but after taking the lady fingers every morning for a few months,she has stopped Insulin but continues to take the lady fingers everyday. But she chops the lady fingers into fine pieces in the night, adds the water and drinks it all up the next morning. Please. try it as it will not do you any harm even if it does not do much good to you, but U have to keep taking it for a few months before U see results, as most cases might be chronic.

Saturday, December 11, 2010

Kenangan lalu

ingatanku kabur terlimit bak kabus di pagi hari,
kerna usia aku tak bisa mengimbau kenangan lalu tanpa kelabat wajah2 di zaman kanak2,
Walau kisah antara kita begitu terhad namun amat bermakna,
kerana kau & aku antara kita hanya menyapa dalam angan di angin lalu,
aku begitu amat malu untuk bertanya khabar atau menyapa & berseloka tika itu,
lantaran di kajauhan aku berbisik pada bayu,
sesungguhnya kau pernah ku kenal...suatu ketika dulu

Wednesday, December 08, 2010

Teman

Teman
Dalam kita bergembira, ada yg berduka
Jatuh sakit tanpa terduga
Segalanya bukan kehendak kita
Ingatan dan doa kita buat mereka

Bersabarlah temanku
Segala yg datang adalah ujian dariNya
Dalam proses meningkatkan iman dan takwa
Dan menggugurkan segala dosa

Bersabarlah rakanku
Beringatlah kawanku
Sama-samalah kita berdoa
Semoga mereka sihat sejahtera
Kembali seperti sediakala
Agar kita dapat bersua dan berjumpa
Mengimbau kenangan lama
Kisah suka duka bersama
Saat-saat yang bahagia

Friday, November 26, 2010

Saidina Othman Ibnu Affan r.a. berkata : Antara tanda-tanda orang yang bijaksana itu ialah: · Hatinya selalu berniat suci · Lidahnya selalu basah dengan zikrullah · Kedua matanya menangis kerana penyesalan (terhadap dosa) · Segala perkara dihadapainya dengan sabar dan tabah · Mengutamakan kehidupan akhirat daripada kehidupan dunia.

Share kata2 hikmah yg diterima dp kwn2

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

PESANAN

Imam Ghazali: Apakah yang paling dekat dengan diri kita di dunia ini?
Murid 1: Orang tua
Murid 2: Guru
Murid 3: Teman
Murid 4: Kaum kerabat
Imam Ghazali: Semua jawapan itu benar. Tetapi yang paling dekat dengan kita ialah MATI. Sebab itu janji Allah bahawa setiap yang bernyawa pasti akanmati ( Surah Ali-Imran :185).

Imam Ghazali: Apa yang paling jauh dari kita di dunia ini ?
Murid 1: Negeri Cina
Murid 2: Bulan
Murid 3: Matahari
Murid 4: Bintang-bintang
Imam Ghazali: Semua jawaban itu benar. Tetapi yang paling benar adalah MASA LALU. Bagaimanapun kita, apapun kenderaan kita, tetap kita tidak akan dapatkembali ke masa yang lalu. Oleh sebab itu kita harus menjaga hari ini, hariesok dan hari-hari yang akan datang dengan perbuatan yang sesuai dengan ajaran Agama.

Imam Ghazali: Apa yang paling besar didunia ini ?
Murid 1: Gunung
Murid 2: Matahari
Murid 3: Bumi
Imam Ghazali: Semua jawaban itu benar, tapi yang besar sekali adalah HAWA NAFSU (Surah Al Araf: 179). Maka kita harus hati-hati dengan nafsu kita,jangan sampai nafsu kita membawa ke neraka.

IMAM GHAZALI Apa yang paling berat didunia?
Murid 1: Baja
Murid 2: Besi
Murid 3: Gajah
Imam Ghazali: Semua itu benar, tapi yang paling be! rat adalah MEMEGANGAMANAH (Surah Al-Azab : 72 ). Tumbuh-tumbuhan, binatang, gunung, danmalaikat semua tidak mampu ketika Allah SWT meminta mereka menjadi khalifahpemimpin) di dunia ini. Tetapi manusia dengan sombongnya berebut-rebutmenyanggupi permintaan Allah SWT sehingga banyak manusia masuk ke nerakakerana gagal memegang amanah.

Imam Ghazali: Apa yang paling ringan di dunia ini ?
Murid 1: Kapas
Murid 2: Angin
Murid 3: Debu
Murid 4: Daun-daun
Imam Ghazali: Semua jawaban kamu itu benar, tapi yang paling ringan sekalididunia ini adalah MENINGGALKAN SOLAT. Gara-gara pekerjaan kita atau urusandunia, kita tinggalkan solat

Imam Ghazali: Apa yang paling tajam sekali di dunia ini?
Murid- Murid dengan serentak menjawab : Pedang
Imam Ghazali: Itu benar, tapi yang paling tajam sekali didunia ! ini adalah LIDAH MANUSIA. Kerana melalui lidah, manusia dengan mudahnya menyakiti hatidan melukai perasaan saudaranya sendiri

Renung2kanlah...

Cerita Sempoi 1: Cinta Gadis Hospital (Bahagian 3)

Habis saja waktu pejabat petang aku aku orang yang pertama mengetip mesin punchcard yang terletak bersebelahan kaunter penyambut tamu di ruang tamu pejabat. Aku terus bergegas mendapatkan motosikal Yamaha R6 aku di tempat parking di bawah. Entah apa sapaan Zura, penyambut tetamu tadi aku dalam dengar dengan tidak saja. Aku hanya sempat melambat dan melemparkan senyuman pada Zura tanpa sepatah kata. Aku nak kena cepat ni, malam ni ada kelas lagi. Kalau lambat tak sempat aku nak ke Hospital UKM di Cheras tu. Aku mesti berjumpa dengan Misha sebelum ke kelas. Aku mesti tahu Misha sakit apa. Aku perlukan jawapan itu sebelum aku ke kelas Undang-undang Perniagaan Ijazah Sarjana Pentadbiran Perniagaan yang dah masuk semester terakhir dengan OUM. Tanpa jawapan, aku tak akan dapat fokus kepada apa yang pensyarah ajarkan. Itulah sikap aku yang tak sabar. Aku mahukan semuanya selesai satu persatu sebelum aku boleh menumpukan perhatian kepada perkara lain. Dah macam robot. pulak, ikut jadual. Kalau ada masalah, habis semua kerja lain terhenti. Tapi nak buat macamana, kalau boleh ubah perangai tu baguslah jugak. Mungkin juga sebab darah muda, semangat ingin tahu sering berkobar-kobar.

Sampai saja ke perkarangan Hospital UKM, aku terus parkir motosikal di tempat yang disediakan dan terus ke wad di mana Misha ditempatkan. Aku dah lupa pasal kawan aku yang kemalangan dan tujuan asal aku ke hospital ni dulu. Segalanya berlaku secara tak sengaja, spontan. Tapi disebabkan itulah aku jadi tak keruan. Lintang pukang habis jadual hidup aku, dengan kerja dan kelas malam yang aku hadiri, kini dengan aktiviti tambahan berulang alik ke hospital, untuk menemui gadis yang aku baru kenal. Untuk apa akupun tak tahu. Adakah aku telah jatuh cinta pada Misha, atau aku kasihankan dia? Haish, biarlah masa menentukannya. Yang penting aku perlu bertemu Misha petang ni juga.

"Assalamualaikum," sapaku sebaik sahaja wajah Misha berada di depanku. Misha dah nampak makin bertenaga, mungkin dia dah boleh menerima makanan selepas selesai pembedahan pada sebelah pagi tadi. "Mualaikum salam," balas Misha sambil menoleh ke arah aku. Misha tersenyum manis. "Awak datang ke tengahari tadi? Maaflah saya tak perasan sangat, masih tak sedar sepenuhnya tadi," sapa Misha. Oh, dia perasan aku datang tengahari tadi rupanya. "Tak apa, macamana, dah sihat?" alamak, apa punya soalan aku tanya ni, aduh tak sensitif betul. "Bolehlah," balas Misha. "Awak datang melawat kawan awak lagi ke hari ni? Baiknya awak selalu datang melawat kawan tu, bertuah sungguh dia." Alamak, kantoi, apa aku nak jawab ni? "Err, saya datang nak jumpa Misha sebenarnya. Eh, banyak persoalan dalam kepala saya ni. Tapi tak apalah, Misha berehatlah dulu," balas aku tergagap-gagap. Maklumlah aku ni bukannya biasa sangat berbicara dengan kaum hawa yang aku baru kenal, pasti berpeluh habis. "Oo...Adi nak tanya saya? Pasal apa tu? Oh ya, terima kasih sebab bagi saya jambangan bunga ni, cantik," kata Misha sambil minta kepastian. Alamak, dia ingat nama aku? Oh, kad dengan jambangan bunga ynag aku beri tengahari tadi ada tercatat nama dan nomber telefon bimbit aku. "Err, maaf saya bertanya, Misha sakit apa? Tapi saya suka tengok you, semangat you kuat walaupun terlantar di wad tapi tetap sentiasa tersenyum dan ceria," jawabku pantas dan cuba mengambil hati.

"Erm, Adi nak tau ke? Buat Adi susah hati je nanti, tak payah fikirlah pasal penyakit Misha," jawab Misha sopan sambil tersenyum cuba menutup sesuatu. Aku mengangguk tanda menghormati keputusan Misha. Namun Misha tetap tersenyum dan nampak ceria. Aku kebingungan. "Misha lama lagi di wad ni. Kalau Adi sudi datang-datanglah melawat Misha," sambung Misha lembut. Aku mengiyakan tanda bersetuju sambil tersenyum paksa. Misha tak suka bercerita pasal kisah penyakitnya. Dia lebih suka bercerita dan bertanyakan hal diri aku. Semuanya dia nak tahu, dari tempat kelahiran, persekolahan sehinggalah tempat aku bekerja sekarang. Katanya dia rindukan saat-saat itu. Dia asyik keluar masuk hospitak sahaja dua tahun yang lalu. Pengajian Misha di peringkat Sarjana Muda tertangguh sejak itu. Setelah puas berbual, barulah aku tahu kami sekampung rupanya, Kampung Tunku Putra, Kilang Lama, Kulim. Dan kami pernah ke sekoah yang sama semasa zaman sekolah rendah dulu, Sekolah Rendah Tunku Abdul Malik, Kulim. Dia junior aku dua tahun. "What a small world," kata Misha sambil ketawa kecil. "Nanti Misha tanyakan emak Misha kalau dia kenal ibubapa Abang Adi," tambah Misha. Alamak, dia panggil aku abang. Ya lah, aku kan senior dia setahun di sekolah dulu. Cumanya keluarga Misha berpindah ke Seberang Jaya apabila dia masuk ke sekolah menengah. Sebab tu aku tak ingat sangat, dah lama, lebih kurang 12 tahun. Aku ni bukannya ingat sangat hal-hal yang macam ni. Tapi bila dia cerita balik kisah-kisah di sekolah rendah dulu, teringat aku kepada cikgu-cikgu aku dulu yg mendidik kami menjadi orang yang berguna sekarang ni. Rotan dan tunjuk ajar Cikgu Sahar, Cikgu Lah, Cikgu Lim dan Teacher Param itulah yang membuatkan aku jadi manusia yang boleh dikatakan berjaya jugalah. Aku akan graduat tak lama lagi dengan Ijazah Sarjana Muda (Kepujian) Pentadbiran Perniagaan daripada OUM. Tentu mak dan ayah aku amat berbangga. Tentu guru-guru aku juga turut berbangga dengan kejayaan aku.

Aku punya cita-cita untuk menyambung lagi pengajian aku sehingga ke tahap yang lebih tinggi yang aku mampu. Aku nak menyahut cabaran Pak Su aku yang sering memperlekeh-lekehkan adik-beradik aku. Maklumlah keluarga kami kurang berada berbanding dengan keluarga Pak Su. Semuanya graduat daripa universiti luar negara, malah kesemuanya telah berkahwin dan menetap di sana. Kadang-kadang kesian pulak aku dengan Pak Su, anak-anak semuanya jauh. Walaupun berjaya tapi tak ingat nk balik ke Malaysia dan berjasa kepada negara sendiri. Kalau aku dan adik beradik aku tak pergi ke rumah Pak Su apabila menjelang hari raya, Pak Su hanya beraya dengan Mak Su sahaja di kampung.

"Misha, saya kena pergi dulu, nak balik salin pakaian sebelum ke kelas. Jumpa lagi besok, insyaAllah. Misha nak pesan apa-apa ke, boleh saya bawakan," tanyaku sambil mencapai helmet Shoei yang aku bawa ke mana-mana. Maklumlah topi tu mahal, RM1500 aku beli dulu bersama-sama dengan motorsikal Yamaha R6 aku tu. Kalau hilang, jawabnya pakai helmet murah je lah. Bulan ni poket tengah kering, baru je balik raya di kampung, nak kena bayar yuran graduasi lagi.

"Tak apa, esok mak Misha sampai dari kampung. Misha dah pesan semuanya. Kala ada apa-apa yang Misha nak nanti, Misha telefon abang okey?" Balas Misha.
Aku bergegas balik ke rumah. Aku masih belum mendapat jawapan daripada Misha, tapi hati aku tenang, setenang wajah Misha yang menanggung kesakitan itu. Aku sungguh terharu dan kagum dengan ketabahan Misha. Esok mak Misha nak sampai, boleh ek aku pergi jumpa Misha ni? Mak dia boleh ke terima kehadiran aku nanti? Fuh, pening aku memikirkannya...

360 Competency Evaluation





Lucky tht we have online system available so we can do 360 competency evaluation and assessment easily and efficiently. Furthermore, we can go green without loads of papers required for everyone to do the evaluation on self, supervisors, subordinates, customers/vendors (mainly internal) and colleagues. Thanks to online 360 apps. But most importantly is the result and analysis. We can use the result to do a lot of career development and competency intervention if required. However the question is how accurate is the report? Well it depends on the person doing the assessment. He or she needs to be objective and clear wht the intention is. It started from the design of the questionnaires to the selection of the feedback givers. If we can have more feedback givers, the result can as better with less/minimal 'margin of error'. At least we have some reports tht's based on not only our own assessment but also wht others think of us as far as the targeted competencies are concerned. The main objective is to improve. No point having great 360 results but in actual fact, our staff are not competent. Make sure we do analyse the report and do not take it for granted, do something...identify the best intervention required to help your staff grow or at least improve in the areas they are lacking.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Forget Your Guilty Feeling

Hey! Forget ur guilty feeling for others. Take care of ur own self and make sure u know wht u want and get wht u want. As for others, let em take care of themselves. They are matured enough to take care of themselves, haha. As long as u have tht feeling and keep feeling sorry for others, u urself will suffer at the end of the day. So feel good about urself and enjoy life. Take care...

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Suatu Perpisahan

Pertemuan
Bukan dirancang
Tapi kebetulan
Ataukah suratan?

Perpisahan
Bukan pilihan
Takdir menentukan
Semuanya ketentuan

semoga bertemu kembali...

Cerita Sempoi 1: Cinta Gadis Hospital (Bahagian 2)

"Assalamualaikum," sapa ku kepada hanba Allah yang parkir motosikalnya bersebelahan aku di perkarangan parking di Hospitak UKM. Aku terus ke Hospital ni di waktu rehat tengahari. Sengaja aku makan nasi berlauk pagi tadi supaya kenyang sampai ke petang. Kawan-kawan yang mengadap makanan bersama di kedai Pak Yob sempat mengutuk aku lagi, "nak pegi menoreh ke atau ke bendang lepas ni?" Diikuti dengan ketawa berdekah-dekah rakan-rakan seangkatanku yang turut makan pagi bersama tadi. Aku buat-buat tak faham je sambil tersenyum, bukannya aku tersenyum dek gurauan mereka tapi terkenangkan peristiwa semalam bertentang mata dengan Misha petang semalam. Tak sabar rasanya aku untuk bertemu dengan dia lagi tengahari nanti. Selalunya waktu makan tengahari aku akan keluar bersama-sama dengan rakan sekerja untuk makan tengahari bersama, seterusnya kami akan sama-sama ke surau mengerjakan solat zohor berjemaah. Itu dah menjadi rutin aku sejak pindah ke pejabat yang baru ni. Alhamdulillah di pejabat baru ni aku dapat kawan-kawan yang mengajak aku ke jalan Allah. Dah selalu ikut mereka kalau waktiu zohor tak ke surau tu rasa macam tak lengkap pula hari-hari aku di pejabat. Tapi tengahari ni aku cepat-cepat mencapai motosikal menuju ke Hospital UKM di Cheras. Tak jauh sangat perjalanan daripada pejabat aku, dalam 10 minit je kalau naik motosikal. Maklumlah, aku ni memang pakar selok belok jalan-jalan di sekitar Kuala Lumpur ni walaupun baru berpindah ke sini. Mana tidaknya, tiap-tiap hari bermotosikal ke pejabat, cuti minggu pula ronda-ronda bersama kawan-kawan menjelajah ke seluruh pelusok kota. Tapi aku tak join geng mat rempit tu, tak ada faedah. Mati katak kata orang. Kalau dah kemalangan tak ada siapa pun yang nak menolong.

"Assalamualaikum misi," sapa aku sampai sahaja ke tingat 2 wad wanita. "Salam," balas jururawat bertugas di kaunter. "Boleh saya tahu bilik Cik Misha?" tanyaku sopan. Aku memang berpakaian kemas hari ni, bukan nak memikat Misha tapi 'first impression' tu penting orang kata. Jururawat pun akan lebih hormat, maklumlah dunia sekarang ni memandang kebendaan. Kalau pakai selekah tak ada orang yang nak hormat.

"Bilik nombor 2. Boleh saya tahu encik ni siapa?" Tanya jururawat di kaunter pebuh hormat. "Kawan," balasku pantas. "Encik tak boleh lama, hanya 15 minit sahaja, sebab Cik Misha baru selesai menjalani pembedahan dan perlu banyak berehat," pesan jururawat itu. Aku menganggukkan sahaja tanya bersetuju dengan syarat yang diberikan.

"Cik Misha," sapaku perlahan. Misha masih lagi dalam keadaan separuh sedar. "Maaf kalau saya menganggu, saya yang terlanggar Cik Misha petang semalam berhadapan kaunter.," jelasku. Misha mengangguk dan tersenyum tanda dia masih lagi ingat akan peristiwa itu. "Ni ada sejambak bunga untuk Cik Misha," kataku sambil menghulurkan jambangan bunga mawar merah aku aku beli di gerai di bawah. Mahal pun mahallah, nak buat macamana. Dah samapi hospital baru aku teringat datang melawat pesakit dengan tangan kosong. "Terima kasih," balasnya lembut. "Maaf saya tak dapat nak berbual panjang, kepala ni rasanya masih berpusing," tambah Misha. Misha terlelap kembali. Aku duduk di tepi katil Misha sehinggalah tempoh yang diberi tamat. Aku tak suka orang mengingatkan aku, lagipun Misha memerlukan rehat selepas pembedahan dan aku pula perlu kembali ke pejabat sebelum waktu rehat tengahari tamat.

"Cik, bila Cik Misha boleh keluar dari hospital?" Tanyaku kepada jururawat di kaunter. Terkejut jururawat tu, mungkin aku mengganggu konsentrasi dia melakukan sesuatu di kaunter berkenaan. "Maaf,'" katanya sambil tertawa kecil. Akupun turut membalas dengan senyuman. "Belum tentu lagi lah adik, adik rtahulah penyakit dia tu, kena tunggu pemeriksaan selepas ni dulu. Kalau doktor dah berpuas hati barulah boleh keluar," panjang lebar penjelasan jururawat itu kepadaku. Teruk ke sakit si Misha ni? Kenapa sampai lama sangat nak baik? Dah menjalani pembedahan pun belum tentu baik? Rumit benar bunyinya tu. Aku ingat sangat bertanya tapi aku rasa maklumat tu sulit untuk diberitahu kepada pelawat macam aku ni. Tak apalah, esok aku datang lagi, aku akan cuba tanya dengan Misha sendiri. Lagipun aku dah tuliskan nombor telefon bimbit aku pada kad ucapan yang aku serahkan bersama-sama jambangan bungai kepada Misha tadi. Dadaku berdebar-debar mengenangkan kesakitan yang dialami Misha. Petang tu aku tak dapat nak fokus dengan kerja-kerja di pejabat. Dua-tiga kali aku ditegur Kak Yusni, penyelia aku. Nasib baiklah Kak Yusni ni amat memahami aku. Cadangnya aku nak buat 'overtime' petang ni, tapi tak jadi. Aku harus ke hospital semula. Harap-harap Misha dah sedar sepenuhnya daripada kesan bius pembedahan pagi tadi yang dijalaninya. Segala macam persoalan timbul di kotak fikiranku.

Friday, November 19, 2010

Sangkar Emas

Sangkar emas
Sungguh cantik, menarik
Jadi perhatian
Jadi tumpuan
Dicemburui setiap insan

Sangkar emas
Indah bagai dikata
Jiwa tersiksa, terpenjara
Bebas tapi kandas
Megah tapi gundah
Hati di dalam siapa yang tahu..?

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Shukri's House Caught On Fire

Shukri's house, one of our staff was caught on fire last nite. Noting left. Hope that he's OK. Will do a quick collection to relief him and his family a bit from his suffering and assist as much as we can.

Hari Raya Korban

Dua tiga kucing berlari
Mana nak sama di kucing belang
Selamat hari raya haji
Pada semua umat Islam

Gendang gendut tali kecapi
Kenyang perut suka hati
Raya Korban menjelma lagi
Ibadah Korban itulah dihajati

Buah cempedak di luar pagar
Ambil galah tolong jolokkan
Melapah lembu tidaklah sukar
Gotong royong kita laksanakan

Sorong papan tarik papan
Buat keranji dalam perahu
Ibadah korban kita kerjakan
Jangan lupa pada yg memerlu

Monday, November 15, 2010

Quote of the Day

Sometimes we have to be brave enough to move from the familiar to the unfamiliar. Life isn't just reaching peaks. Part of it is moving from one peak to the next. If you rest too long in between, you might be tempted to quit. Leave the past in the past. Climb the next mountain and enjoy the view.

~Unknown~

Friday, November 12, 2010

10 Things the HR Department Won’t Tell You

10 Things the HR Department Won’t Tell You

Woman's Day, on Tue Oct 26, 2010 9:23am PDT

By Kimberly Fusaro

If everything’s going smoothly, you probably won’t interact with the folks in human resources much between the day you’re hired and your last day with the company. But every day in between, it’s their responsibility to make sure you’re doing your job well. Which means they know a lot more than you might think. We checked in with human resources experts to see what your current employer is keeping tabs on—and how your next employer could be judging you based on a whole lot more than the résumé you submitted.
10 Things the HR Department Won't Tell You

10 Things the HR Department Won't Tell You

1. Background checks have gone beyond Google.
Before calling in applicants for a job interview, HR will snoop around online to make sure there are no virtual red flags. “Social media ‘stalking’ has become the norm—especially at larger companies,” says Mary Hladio, who worked in human resources for more than 15 years and is currently CEO of leadership group Ember Carriers. “Beyond typing names into a search engine, companies will also employ sophisticated online monitoring platforms that dig even deeper. If there’s something on the Internet you wouldn’t want your boss to see, it’s probably in your best interest to take it down.”

2. Arriving super-early for an interview is almost as bad as arriving late.
Of course, if someone shows up late for an interview, he or she isn’t going to get a callback, says Amy Habedank, human resources manager of Pinnacle Services. But she’s also hesitant to hire someone who shows up an hour early. “It feels like they have no regard for my time,” she says. If you’re headed to a job interview, don’t show up more than 10 minutes before; if you get there with time to spare, catch up on email or listen to relaxing music before heading in.

3. Your physical appearance matters.
“Research suggests that the decision to hire or to deselect a candidate is made within the first 90 seconds of the interview,” says human resources consultant Steve Cohen, author of Mess Management: Lessons from a Corporate Hit Man. That means you must arrive at a job interview in a clean, well-put-together outfit with neat fingernails, smoothed-down hair and fresh breath. Also, think twice about any eccentricities. “Some people might be able to look past pink hair and black nail polish, but it will affect their decision,” says Hladio.

Check out a foolproof outfit that’s perfect for a job interview.

4. Personal hygiene counts, too.
Smelling like cigarette smoke can work against you, as can having body odor. Because both conditions are within an individual’s control, an employee or job candidate who smells bad is viewed as lacking professionalism, Cohen says. Plus, an employee who smells bad is a public relations liability. Most companies won’t tolerate poor personal hygiene in an employee or potential employee.

5. You won’t get hired to work from home if you aren’t a “home professional.”
If you’re applying for a work-from-home position, you need to present yourself as a “home professional” from the get-go. This means that when HR first calls to express interest, there better not be crying babies or barking dogs in the background. “When an applicant has no control over the noise level in her home, it’s a signal that she’s not ready for virtual work,” says Shilonda Downing, who’s in charge of hiring for Virtual Work Team. You’ll also need a quiet home office space if you’re petitioning your current boss for work-from-home hours.

6. Being overweight can work against you.
Even though overweight individuals can be fast on their feet and slim people can be lazy, an interviewer might assume an obese job candidate won’t be able to keep up at a “high-performance” company. Cohen gives the example of a manufacturing company that prided itself on efficiency and speed. Every prospective employee was taken on a walking tour of the large plant before being hired. If the prospect couldn’t keep up with the owner’s fast pace on the facility tour, he or she wouldn’t be hired. If you’re worried your size may be working against you, Cohen suggests emphasizing how adept and resourceful you are.

7. Ageism (illegally) exists.
“People who have seen their 50th birthday are losing jobs to younger people, even though ageism is illegal,” says Dennis Kravetz, head of human resources consulting firm Kravetz Associates. Older employees hoping for a promotion need to be extra-vigilant about staying on top of trends and technology. In a job interview, emphasize what you’ve learned from years of experience and explain how you’ve grown along with your industry.

8. Your relationship is being monitored if you’re dating a coworker.
“Sometimes people meet their future spouse at the office,” says Cohen. “But mostly, dating coworkers is risky.” Even if dating among colleagues is allowed, a relationship that ends badly is going to affect other people in the office. It gets extra-tricky if a romantic relationship between a supervisor and his or her subordinate sours. “Human resources is watching behavior that could turn litigious,” warns former human resources executive J.T. O’Donnell, founder of Careerealism.com.

9. Your Internet usage is probably being documented.
Don’t assume there’s any level of confidentiality when it comes to company technology, whether it’s email, voicemail or indiscriminate use of the Internet, Cohen says. “In a situation where an employee’s integrity or credibility is in question, there will always be an audit of her computer usage.” That means your boss probably isn’t randomly checking to see how often you log on to Facebook. But if he’s looking for a reason to fire you, your computer records could provide easy ammunition.

10. Your good and bad behavior matter—but the bad matters more.
“Promotions have favoritism built in,” says Hladio. Good behavior and positive experiences have a “shelf life” of three to six months. You need to continually impress your employer in order to stand out as an exceptional employee. Bad behavior and negative experiences, on the other hand, can linger in an employer’s mind for years.

Original article appeared on WomansDay.com

Mari kita berkongsi hasil tulisan Ustaz Pahrol:KELUAR DARI MAZHAB KING MIDAS!

Berkrisis tentang mazhab? Entahlah, kerana hati kita yang kotor agaknya, perbezaan yang sewajarnya menjadi rahmat bertukar juga menjadi bencana. Padahal bukan semua perbezaan adalah satu pertentangan, jika kita pandai menguruskan perbezaan, ia akan menjadi satu keindahan dan kesempurnaan. Telah berkali-kali ditegaskan bahawa berbeza pendapat bukan masalah tetapi SIKAP kita dalam berbeza pendapat itu yang sering menimbulkan masalah.
Padahal jika diamat-amati, terlalu banyak hal yang kita telah sependapat. Hanya sedikit yang berbeza. Yang sama itu pun kekadang tidak atau belum lagi dilaksanakan, diamalkan dan diperjuangkan. Contoh, riba, tutup aurat, pergaulan bebas, arak, judi dan lain-lain… sudah sepakat kita yakini haram. Tak kira apa mazhab, tidak kira apa aliran, salafi, suni, wahabi dan segala macam… tidak ada yang mengatakan itu halal. Tetapi bagaimana pelaksanaan kita?
Begitu juga perkara-perkara yang halal dan wajib. Ambil contoh sahaja solat…semua aliran dan mazhab menetapkan itu WAJIB. Tetapi bagaimana pelaksanaannya? Sedih, mengikut kajian (yang dikemukakan oleh Datuk Fadillah Khamsah) sudah 80% umat Islam Melayu Malaysia tidak sembahyang. Sepatutnya, pada perkara-perkara yang telah disepakati HARAM dan HALAL inilah yang kita fokuskan untuk berdakwah, mendidik dan akhirnya mengamalkan atau mencegahnya.
Mengapa ini berlaku? Ya, ini gara-gara penangan satu 'mazhab' lagi yang menjadi pegangan kebanyakan manusia Islam tidak kira dia itu dari mazhab Maliki, Safie, Hanbali, Hanafi, Sunni, Wahabi, Salafi dan sebagainya… ya mazhab KING MIDAS. Inilah 'mazhab' yang menjadi penyebab kepada penyakit Al Wahan – cinta dunia dan takut mati, yang sangat dibimbangi oleh Rasulullah saw kepada umat Islam akhir zaman.
Justeru, pada hari Jumaat yang mulia mari sama-sama kita renungi satu tulisan yang telah saya paparkan dalam buku Nota Hati Seorang Lelaki. Tulisan yang bertajuk: Keluarlah Dari Mazhab King Midas!
Sewaktu memberikan penjelasan tentang persoalan nilai dalam kursus 'Mukmin Profesional', saya sering mulakan dengan sebuah cerita – perihal King Midas seorang raja yang tamak. Dia mementingkan harta daripada segalanya. Apa yang dibuat, apa yang dinilai, semuanya dari kaca mata ringgit dan permata. Lalu, bila satu ketika diajukan apa permintaan utamanya, dia menyatakan keinginannya agar apa yang disentuhnya menjadi emas. Seorang tukang sihir telah 'memperkenankan' permintaannya. Dia sangat gembira. Habis semua yang disentuhnya menjadi emas. Namun kegembiraannya tidak lama.
Sebaik sahaja berasa lapar dan dahaga, alangkah terkejutnya bila makanan dan air yang disentuhnya turut menjadi emas. Dia mula kebingungan. Emas, walaupun sangat berharga masakan boleh menghilangkan lapar dan dahaga. Dan yang paling menyedihkan ialah bila puteri tersayangnya datang untuk bermanja… Puteri itu turut bertukar menjadi emas apabila dia menyentuhnya. King Midas, terkejut… sedih. Pada waktu itu tersedarlah dia bahawa emas bukanlah segala-galanya.
Mungkin ramai beranggapan, cerita King Midas ini hanya dongengan. Ya, benar itu cerita dongeng, tetapi pengajaran daripada cerita itu sangat signifikan dan relevan. King Midas adalah lambang manusia yang sudah kehilangan 'nilai' dalam dirinya. Realitinya, betapa ramai manusia yang semazhab dengan King Midas – dari dahulu hingga kini. Bukankah ada di kalangan masyarakat yang sanggup berbuat apa sahaja untuk mendapatkan 'emas' walaupun terpaksa mengorbankan saudara?
Berebut harta pusaka, saudara sendiri dizalimi. Justeru, tamakkan pangkat dan kedudukan, sahabat sendiri rela dikorbankan. Mengapa demikian? Apakah harta itu lebih utama daripada saudara dan sahabat? Semuanya gara-gara ramai manusia yang beranggapan bahawa nilai dirinya bergantung kepada 'barang-barang' bernilai yang dimilikinya. Soal 'siapa saya?' ditentukan oleh wang bertimbun yang dimilikinya. Seolah-olah 'aku' adalah kereta, vila, jumlah saham dan segala aset yang dimiliki. Pendek kata, nilai dirinya diletakkan pada barang-barang bernilai kepunyaannya.
Benar kah nilai kita terletak pada barang-barang bernilai? Hingga dengan nilai itu kita akan mendapat harga diri dan status sosial yang tinggi di mata sendiri dan orang lain. Jika benar, siapa diri kita apabila segalanya itu hilang? Jika rumah terbakar, siapa kita ketika itu? Jika kereta dicuri, apakah harga diri kita turut juga dicuri? Aneh bunyinya bukan? Tak mungkin, harga diri kita terletak kepada semua itu. Tapi, itulah praktik majoriti manusia masa kini – ramai yang menilai diri sendiri dan orang lain berdasarkan pemilikan barang-barang bernilai. Al hasil, kita jadi semakin materialistik dan individualistik.
Pernah saya mendengar sebuah cerita sufi dari Turki – seorang yang bernama Nuruddin Khoja. Dia yang berserban dan berjubah besar pada suatu ketika menaiki keldai memasuki sebuah kampung. Orang kampung mengalu-alukan kedatangannya dan melaung, "ulama, ulama, ulama… ulama sudah datang. Mari kita belajar daripadanya." Dia hairan lalu bertanya, "mana kamu semua tahu yang aku ini ulama?" Orang kampung itu menjawab, "daripada serban dan jubah yang kamu pakai." Lalu Nuruddin meletakkan serbannya di atas kepala keldainya dan berkata, "ayuh, belajarlah daripada keldai ini."
Orang kampung kehairanan dan bertanya, "mengapa kami perlu belajar dari keldai ini?" Nuruddin secara selamba menjawab, "bukankah kamu semua beranggapan bahawa aku seorang ulama hanya kerana aku berserban? Jika demikian keldai ku sekarang telah berserban, maka kamu belajarlah daripadanya." Sindiran sinis daripada Nuruddin ini sesungguhnya membuktikan bahawa pakaian luaran bukan petunjuk kepada nilai diri kita. Nilai ulama pada ilmu dan akhlaknya, bukan pada serban dan  jubahnya. Tetapi begitulah selalunya, nilaian orang terhadap kita dan nilaian kita terhadap diri kita sendiri. Jika tidak masakan timbul 'konflik' kopiah putih vs songkok hitam satu ketika dulu.
Ibn Qayyim Al Jauzi pernah berkata, "tanda seorang mengalami sakit jiwa ialah apabila dia lebih mempercayai kata orang lain daripada suara hatinya sendiri." Mungkin kata-kata itu terlalu falsafah dan tersirat maknanya. Biarlah saya cuba memudahkan dengan mengaitkannya dengan realiti kehidupan sehari-hari. Sebagai contoh, betapa ramai pasangan suami-isteri yang sudah 'tidak sehati dan sejiwa' lagi tetapi bila berdepan dengan masyarakat umum kelihatan begitu romantis. Mereka berpegang tangan, berkepit seiringan, kononnya nanti masyarakat akan menyifatkan mereka pasangan yang bahagia.
Masyarakat yang tidak tahu hakikat sebenar akan berkata, "oh, beruntungnya mereka kerana punya rumah tangga yang bahagia." Bila komentar yang sedemikian sampai ke telinga pasangan yang 'tidak bahagia' itu mereka pun rasa bahagia (walaupun mereka sebenarnya berpura-pura). Alangkah anehnya manusia. Ramai yang rela hidup dalam berpura-pura atas nilai yang mereka tidak ada.
Akibat tersalah pandang tentang nilai yang sebenar, ramai juga yang hilang harga diri tanpa disedari oleh mereka. Apa tidaknya, saya sendiri pernah berdepan dengan seorang 'isteri kecewa'  sewaktu mengendalikan satu kursus dengan sebuah institusi korporat di Sabah. Seorang suri rumah secara terus terang berkata, "saya rasa perkahwinan memang satu penghambaan." Ketika ditanya, "mengapa?" Dia berkata, "apa tidaknya? Sekian lama saya bertugas sebagai isteri dan ibu, saya rasa tidak dihargai oleh suami. Sedangkan nilai saya begitu tinggi…"
King Midas akhirnya sedar bahawa anak lebih utama daripada emasnya. Jangan pula kita bermati-matian mencari harta hingga terlupa mendidik anak-anak. Ironinya, bila ditanya kenapa mencari harta? Kita akan menjawab, demi anak-anak. King Midas juga sedar bahawa emas tidak akan dapat menggantikan makanan dan minuman. Hendaknya, jangan pula kita sibuk mencari duit hingga terlupa 'menikmati' duit. Siang malam berjaga, stres dan tension melanda … demi menimbunkan harta. Bila ditanya untuk apa? Untuk bahagia. Bahagia kah bila sakit menimpa? Jadi, pastikanlah yang mana alat, yang mana matlamat? Mana tujuan, mana keperluan? Jangan hanya memburu nikmat hingga terlupa Pemberi nikmat. Keluar dari mazhab King Midas

Teh Tarik Session with Senior Mgmt




We have to give to get? is one of the key take home points for this evening teh tarik session. He told us a story about him asking for promotion and never got it but when he listened to his boss's speech one day saying that magic statement, he stopped asking and just do his job, even more than expected, because that magic statement really changed him back then. Miracle happened after that when he received his promotion twice within a year or two. It's not about miracle but it's about what you did without asking for reward. People can and will see what you had delivered. Even if you won't get it right now, here, you have to believe that God is Great, and he'll repay sometimes later maybe not directly but indirectly in term of health, successful kids, or even afterlife. Just do good, don't expect reward, and you'll happier and deliver better result. If you keep asking, and you didn't get, definitely you'll get frustrated and your productivity deteriorated. How can you get your promotion then? Just think about it. Be patient, honest and don't expect anything extra, you'll be happy at work. I strongly believe in what he's saying...do you?

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Do we really need somebody from outside?




One of my colleague asked me do we really need somebody from outside to be one of our leaders in our organization? What had ever happened to our internal talents? Where have they gone, or the company is not longer appreciating our own talents? This is a tough question, but answer is this...

We need fresh new ideas. We need someone who has the external exposure to give us fresh new ideas. Internal talents are good but sometimes we need a mix of internal and someone from external so tht we can have a lot more and better ideas. Especially when a company is not doing well, internal staff might not under or could see from different perspective. A successful company always needs someone either as consultant or senior mgmt staff from the industry who can assist the company to get out of problem or to go for a greater height. Does not mean that internal staff is not good but rather for the mgmt team and staff to get different ideas and exposures. A company should capitalise on its strength and in the areas tht it needs improvement, seek from the best in the industry and hire them. A company can expect to make drastic change in its organizAtion and also make a quantum leap in the area to improve by doing this.

Whether it works or not and the speed of success are depending on the adaptability of the new hire and also the desire of a compnay to change, without forgetting the culure of tht organization.

Tuesday, November 09, 2010

Masih ada yg syg

Masih ada yg sayang
Jika kita mengingatiNya
Jika kita sujud padaNya
Allah tak pernah lupa
Tapi kita yg sentiasa leka
Alpa dek nikmat dunia
Walaupun semuanya sementara
Tiada yg kekal kecuali Dia
Jadilah umatNya yg bersyukur
Jadilah hambaNya yg bertafakur
Agar kita tidak tersungkur
SuruhanNya perlu kita akur
Amin

Friday, November 05, 2010

Dingin Malam

Dingin malam
Menghembus ke pipi
Terasa asing
Sunyi, sepi
Tiada bulan, tiada bintang
Kelam
Bagai hati ini, suram
Ya Allah
Kupohon padaMu
Berikanlah petunjuk
Sinar keimanan
Selaku pedoman untukku menongkah waktu
Menerjah sisa2 hidup
Dengan penuh keredhaanMu
Petunjuk & hidayahMU
Aku pasrah
Aku berserah
Hanya padaMU
Ya Allah

Cerita Sempoi 1: Cinta Gadis Hospital

Cerita ni adalah kenangan aku & dia. Owh, nama aku Adiwira, kerja di TM Bangsar sebagai Pembantu Pentadbiran di Bahagian HR sejak 3 tahun lalu. Aku mula2 bertemu dgn dia di Hospital secara tak sengaja, sempoi kan? Cerita cinta kami bermula begini...

Pada satu hari aku telah ke Hospital UKM di Cheras kerana melawat kawan aku yg accident. Mamat ni jatuh motosikal sewaktu nak ke pejabat. Biasalah dah naik motosikal ni, kalau berhati2 macamana pun, dek kerana kecuaian pemandu kenderaan lain terutamanya lori atau bas, yg menjadi mangsanya sudah pasti penunggang motosikal. Kawan aku ni dilanggar lori satu tan yang masuk secara mengejut dan tanpa memberikan lampu isyarat langsung katanya. Nasib baik dia hanya mengalami kecederaan patah tangan sahaja, motosikal dia memang total lost la. So aku pegilah melawat mamat ni hospital. Aku ni manalah pernah ke hospital, aku tak tahu wad ke apa, dah tanya org tu aku main redah aje. Ajak member lain semuanya busy, maklumlah hujung bulan, nak closing account. Aku kerja di Bahagian HR so taklah busy sangat macam member Bahagian Finance tu. Kami semua kerja di syarikat yg sama dan selalu gak pegi menunggang ramai2 sama2 terutamanya kalau ada cuti panjang ataupun forced leave. Daripada duduk melepak kat rumah atau buat benda tak berfaedah baiklah aku pegi jalan2 dgn motosikal ramai2 dgn kawan2 yg mempunyai sama minat dgn aku. Memang best kalau menunggang atau ride ramai2 ni, naik motosikal berkuasa tinggi pulak, kalau dah sampai ke destinasi tu ramai yg memandang. Cemburulah tu, hehe...

Anyways, berbalik dgn kisah aku di hospital tadi, aku tersalah masuk wad, aku termasuk wad wanita. Habis semua nurse tu pandang aku. Tapi aku buat dek aje, sambil tanya dimana wad lelaki. Adalah juga nurse2 di situ yg berbisik sesama mereka dan ketawa kecil, hampeh sungguh...tapi aku peduli apa, bukannya aku buat salah pun, cuma tersalah masuk aje. On the way nak keluar tu, aku terlanggar pulak sorg minah ni, nasib baik aku dan dia tak terjatuh. Adoi, dua kali malu aku hari tu, haha. Aku pandang dia, ada sorg nurse sebelah dia, ada tabung apa tah yg nurse tu pegang ada wayar terpasang di lengan kanan dia. Nasib baiklah tak tercabut wayar tu, kalau tak entahlah apa aku nak buat. Boleh ke aku nak sambung balik? Alamak, macam doktor la pulak, haha. Tapi apa yg penting dan yg aku nk cakapkan kan sini ialah air muka awek tu, walaupun sakit dan salah aku terlanggar dia, dia tetap tersenyum dalam kesakitan. Aku tergamam seketika. "Tak apa, it's ok," dia kata. Aku kelu. "Maaf," akhirnya terkeluar perkataan tu drpd mulut aku. "Nama saya Adiwira," aku mengenalkan diri.

Sebelum ni aku punyalah takut nak tegur dgn awek, nak sembang2 jangan haraplah. Tapi dgn awek ni lain pulak. Ada satu keberanian dalam diri aku utk menyapa dia. Alamak, nurse sebelah tu dah terbeliak mata semacam je, naik seram bulu roma aku, manusia ke apa dia ni? Dipendekkan cerita, dia bagitau aku namanya Misha dan terus berlalu perlahan diiringi nurse yg dah nak macam serigala jadian tu. Aku mengiringi pemergian Misha dgn pandangan mata tanpa berkelip. Ayu sungguh si Misha ni, bersopan santun, tak mudah marah, sejuk mata memandang, sejuk juga hati bila berdepan dengannya.

Aku terus naik ke tingkat 5 wad lelaki untuk melawat rakan aku yg kemalangan tadi dan bergegas untuk balik ke rumah. Aku ada kelas malam ni, kelas jurisprudence, salah satu subjek yg aku ambil dalam semester ni. Tinggal lagi dua semester sebelum aku menamatkan pengajian Bachelor in Business Administration daripada Open University yg telah aku ambil sejak tigak tahun yg lalu. Dah puas rasanya belajat, tapi aku kena berikan tumpuan, bukannya lama pun lagi, tinggal semester ni dan final semester selepas ni. Harap2 aku dapat lulus semua subjek yg aku regster semester ni supaya tak perlu nak repeat, amin. Tapi petang tu aku tak dapat nak fokus kpd syarahan yg diperikan oleh pensyarah aku tu. Ingatan aku asyik kepada Misha. Aku mesti jumpa dia esok, mesti...

Bersambung...confident je si Adiwira ni, biar betul...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FtORmCFytL0

Relaxing

So soothing
So relaxing
How nice...